i hate

• i hate when i am going through something HUGE and someone whose supposed to care a whole heap, doesn't even ask about it, but when that same person is going through something equally huge, they expect me to be all flipped out for them. uhhh hey, where were you during my cordocentesis? oh, that's right, not giving a flying fuck. and not EVER calling to check and see if your grandson survived it. so don't get shitty when i don't call to check on you. we reap what we sow.